Thursday, December 18, 2014

More happy decades ahead..

Alhamdulillah, today is my 10th Anniversary. May Allah grant this marriage with more happy days until Jannah. Aamiin~~ I love you Yaby!

My take on marriage after 10 years? Hmmm... marriage is the toughest challenge which I have yet to conquer. There are so many things that I need to learn still! Hehehe.. When I thought I've mastered one angle, all of a sudden I realised that I am still a newbie at many more different angles. Adeh~ Hihihi..

If I have to share one advice.. one advice only on marriage, it would be - build your marriage for the sake of Allah. By that, I mean lillahi ta'ala. Imam Suhaib Webb wrote a nice article in his website on this. He said that, "when we realize the power and depth of that phrase, it becomes the 'coolness' of our eyes and nafs (soul). Our perception of life and the world around us changes to such a degree that you will strive to embody the lifestyle of the Prophets, the martyrs, the truthful ones and all those who follow in righteousness."

Yes, it is easier said than done. 

I have to admit that I have to remind myself over and over again on this. It tends to slip away. At times, the human side of me would want something in return either by praises or presents. Adeh~~ 

Remember my entry in 2009.. An open letter to Yaby.. when I wanted for Pandora. Just so you know, Yaby didn't surprise me with a Pandora that year. Was I heart broken? I was devastated! But before you guys go throwing empty cans or bottles to my dear Yaby, please know that I finally got my Pandora specially bought from Andora in his last visit to Spain. Happy! 

See.. I told you.. even after what I just wrote, I felt happier when I got the Pandora bracelet. Adoiyai. Forgive me, I am just being a human. But believe me, I believe in the concept of lillahi ta'ala, hence, struggling to get that. I knew that with that alone, anyone would be at peace and tak berkira-kiraHehehehe :-P 

P/S: Yaby angkat baju boleh? Po dah masak. *peace*

P/P/S: I found out that Yaby never read my entry in 2009. *DUSH*

18/12/2014 - Yaby posted on the FB just in time for this entry. Feeling loved! Alhamdulillah..wastagfiru.. :D